If
you’ve recently started the process of searching for a new nanny, you know that
finding the right nanny to nurture your kids is an incredibly big job. When it
comes to looking for a live-in nanny, remember that you’re not just hiring a
nanny to care for your kids, but you’re also looking for someone that can live
well with you in a roommate style situation.
The
Basics:
Just
because your nanny lives with you, doesn’t always mean that she is on call 24
hours a day, 7 days a week. A live-in nanny typically has set hours per week,
then two days off per week. She should
be paid by the hour, not a slaary and if she ends up working more than
required each week, you are required to pay her overtime. In addition to duties
and responsibilities, live-in nannies must also have a portion of their
contract outlined for the house-sharing portion of the job. This should include
topics such as meals, dining out, food storage, and what
"board" actually covers. For example, are there items in the
home that she will need to provide for herself such as toiletries, or can she
use these as part of living in your home? Her primary job is taking care of the
kids, but if you want to ask if she is open to preparing meals or cleaning, you
can do so. Just be sure that is covered in the interview process before
the nanny accepts the job. Those extra items should not be expected unless you
have previously discussed this with her.
Accommodations:
Providing
adequate living space for your nanny is a must. This usually includes a private
room with a private bath. Room and board is always included – it is never taxed
or included in the income. Meals should also be provided for her, but if she
has specific dietary needs, then you as the employer may want to offer her an
area in the pantry or fridge for her items or go over details about how she
would like to take care of the meal portion of living at the home. A television
and connection to WiFi should be provided and if she doesn’t have a vehicle,
you can negotiate that she can use the family vehicle on her free time.
Duties:
A
live-in nanny is typically responsible for all child related activities in the
home. This includes not merely caring for the children, but also their meal
preparation when on duty, their laundry and bedding, and cleaning and
sanitizing bottles, toys, etc. A live-in nanny should keep your home in the
condition that you left it. She is NOT a full charge housekeeper, although many
live-in nannies will agree to perform some additional housekeeping duties for
additional compensation. Just like cooking, this should be discussed and agreed
to in the initial job interview and memorialized in your work agreement.
The
Details:
You
may have heard of the "Nightmare Nanny" situation in California in
2014. The major factor that allowed the "nanny" to stay in the home
even when the family severed the relationship was the family's failure to
establish a proper employer | employee relationship and specify that room and
board were a part of the relationship. Household employment experts all
agree, a written work agreement between the family and the
nanny or caregiver is a best practice. This memoralizes the employment
agreement, including compensation, benefits (lodging and meals) and other
factors that establish the relationship between the employer and the worker. A
properly written work agreement (and legal pay) would have precluded the
nanny from claiming tenant rights - it would have established the room and
board as a condition of employment, which ends when employment ends. Tenancy
laws vary by state - consult a legal expert in your state for help if you don't
feel comfortable going it alone in this area. Some states require notice to the
live-in nanny of termination, or obligate the employer to provide alternative
housing if the proper notice period is not observed.
The
Legalities:
The
live-in nanny is a household employee. As the employer, you have payroll tax and labor law responsibilities. These
will include Social Security and Medicare taxes, Unemployment tax, and
adherence to state and federal labor laws as they pertain to workers
compensation insurance, minimum wage, overtime, payroll frequency and pay theft
prevention measures.
The
Bottom Line:
Keep
lines of communication open at all time and be sure that if any questions or
issues arise, that you discuss them with one another in order to keep an
amicable working relationship going.